When the Cradle Stays Empty: Grief is Different for Everyone

Keywords: Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Psychological stress, Miscarriage, Women, Mother, Pakistan, Abortion, Spontaneous; Anxiety; Depression; Family Support; Female; Grief; Pregnancy; Social Factors; Spouses.

Abstract

OBJECTIVE
To explore women's experiences of perinatal grief, depression, anxiety, and stress across various personal and social factors.
STUDY DESIGN
Cross-sectional survey design.
PLACE & DURATION OF STUDY
The present study was conducted online over four months from November 2024 to February 2025.
METHOD
A total of 139 women (aged 18-55) who had recently experienced a miscarriage were included using purposive sampling technique. Data were collected through Perinatal Grief Scale and the Depression, Anxiety and Stress Scale. Data were analysed using the statistical software SPSS 27.
RESULTS
Women who reported satisfaction with their relationship had significantly lower scores on perinatal grief, depression, and anxiety. Similarly, women who reported satisfaction with their home environment scored lower on perinatal grief, depression, anxiety, and stress, and those who experienced emotional problems after miscarriage had significantly higher scores on all measures. One-way ANOVA analysis revealed significant differences in our study measures across three marital status groups: married, divorced, and widowed.
CONCLUSION
Women's experiences of perinatal grief, depression, anxiety, and stress varied significantly according to relationship satisfaction, family support, home environment, marital status, and emotional vulnerabilities.

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Published
2025-09-29
How to Cite
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Naheed F, Butt MG, Qayyum L. When the Cradle Stays Empty: Grief is Different for Everyone. J Pak Psychiatr Soc [Internet]. 2025Sep.29 [cited 2026Mar.17];22(03). Available from: https://mail.jpps.pk/index.php/journal/article/view/1064